C.H.A.N.G.E????

This past weekend I went to church and then after that I decided to stop by the F.O.I "Fruit of Islam" to see exactly what they talk about. I've always had an interest for who I am as a black man other than hearing James Brown tell me "I'm black and I'm proud" or the Black Church telling Me I'm Gods Child and a Descendant of Abraham. I'm not changing my religion but they did have some nice books on who we are. So it brought me to this question, "Are young black men being overlooked in the local church when it comes to their role in society and how to conduct themselves and recognize who they are?"

What responsibility does the church play when it comes to teaching them?

somebody going to Hell

Now I've always wondered were these steps ordered by God or a routine Hustle like the cha cha slide.. You be the judge but it seems to me allot of this is that happens in church not real.

In my mind

I just wanted to say hello to everyone today! I thought I'd visit my imaginary world with the sun shining and all I'm in this pic in the back waaaaay in the back. hahahaha!! Well hey I was thinking have you ever had someone that was a habitual Liar? I mean they lie even when they know you know that they know you know they lying? (you get all that?) I know women and Men who do that I mean seriously do it and actually believe their own lies! Tell me some stories and why you think they do what they do.

It ain't over!

I was asked by one of my fellow blog people a good question.. How much of you do you put in convincing your best Friend Not commit suicide? I mean some people will go to the point to where they were the counselor and now they need counseling. I call that, "Adopting someones else Demons" and I'd like to know how far you'd go?

why or why not?

How do you feel about one night stands? I mean I think if you grown you grown you do what you want and be safe but seems like alot more women are shying away from the I'm looking for love. Now women are having one night stands and sending the men home or somewhere, hahaha! What's your outlook on that?

My Majic Genie

Is it me or does it seem like in Christianity that the certain people actually think God is a Genie. All you have to do is Pray and He's at YOUR command? Then they Throw up the verse "Ask and you shall receive" and I'm not buying it. I do however think that prayer changes things but not prayer alone. Have you ever experienced that before where someone is really believing That God gonna do something and when it don't happen they say it wasn't in his will? hahaha! Well if the Lights went out cause you haven't paid the bill then ummm Praying all night that they come back on is not going to do anything. I think I just remember something that makes a lot of sense to me, "Faith without works is dead" Or I'd say "Prayer without work is dead" but are you going against having Faith if you prayed on a situation and went out and trying to resolve it? hmmm????

Ignorance or intelligence?

Why is it that People that get angry think that, "Cursing" someone out is actually doing something? I mean I don't want to make this a black and white thing because people of all colors curse one another out. But I've been dealing with my soul sisthas for many years and I do notice that Most seem to want to Curse you out and roll the Neck and get that point across and think they actually hurt someone feelings. hahaha!! That's funny to me because most of us guys tune it out anyway but why do people think literally cursing someone out is doing something? How intelligent is that? Plus I'm trying to take a vow to stop cursing coming out of my mouth anyway but to just Curse someone out because you don't get your way is Ignorant in my opinion. What do you think? When is it Necessary if Necessary at all?

Good Morning

Good Morning My fellow Bloggers!! I thought I'd greet you all with that and say let finish this week strong.

Who did it?

Now understand these topics I'm bringing up are topics that men and women may discuss and I am bringing this to the blog. A few friends and I were thinking how crazy is it to have someone you're dating tell you they no longer want to have sex with you? And they do it after ya'll have a heated argument and you two no longer speak and that person actually sticks to what they say.. Would you be wrong in about a few days, weeks, or even Months or God maybe even years go get it else where? Are you a Dog then? Wouldn't that be the person who call themselves putting you on punishment fault?? This type of Topics crack me up cause I say what one person won't do another one will Shoot yourself in the foot doing shit like this.

Pointing Fingers

Now this is something that seems to be a slight debate among men and women. But My question is, "Do you think a Man should automatically know how to hit your spot when you don't even have a clue where your spot is?" I am a firm believer that a woman that does not know how to give herself an orgasm should learn before getting tick off at a man for not giving her one. See I think there is a lot of finger pointing who fault it is when actually it may not be anyone's.. Or it could be the Female fault for not knowing what the hell her body likes. Reason I say that is you have some women that like it doggy style or like the ride, anal, or even get satisfaction off giving Head but some women don't like any of that so how is a dude suppose to know?

Man Down but Not out!

Well for the last week or so I've hired a personal Trainer to help me with improving my self image and strength. I was working out before but not to this extent and the fact I have allot of pride at times can prove to be my own worst enemy. Well I've already buckled under some weight to the point my damn shoe came off and still no one helped a brotha then working out yesterday till the point I got light headed and got sick.. Who in the hell thought I'd pay for this type of pain? The killing part is it's from My own Cousin!! Yes I'm trying to figure that out to but shit he does this to his own sister so I'm starting to think either he cares allot or he just likes to torture people, LOL.. Anyway this was just my lil something to fill you in on what's going on with me. Anyone have any gym stories they want to share please do.. I can't be the only one hurting like this and kinda like it.

Just got Owned!!

Just in case some of you women in here get robbed and feel like releasing some tension on a would be robber, here is a move for you.. hahahaha!! Shit cracks me up

See thru nothing

Now I wanna know how on earth do women think they know what a man is packing when he not on swole? Explain that one out because if it's to cold it's shrinkage or the underwear can hide some or don't give me the whole shoe size thingy nor the index finger trick either. I believe many of you guess and hope and pray it's right.. You don't know I just want ya'll to admit it.

Beat em Judge!

Remember back in the Day when a good ole fashion whippin would keep you in line? Well this judge must've had a relapse and just started beating inmates. Opps!! I mean Spanking them which sound sexual in some content.. Was he wrong?

(CNN) -- A former south Alabama judge is accused of checking male inmates out of jail and forcing them to engage in sexual activity including paddling, according to officials and court documents. Former Mobile County Circuit Judge Herman Thomas was arrested Friday after a grand jury returned the indictments against him. He was released on $287,500 bond later Friday.

The indictments total 57 counts, and the charges range from ethics violations to kidnapping, extortion, sex abuse and sodomy. If convicted on the most serious charge -- kidnapping, a Class A felony -- Thomas faces a prison sentence of 10 to 99 years in prison, Mobile County District Attorney John Tyson Jr. said Monday.

But Thomas' attorney, Robert Clark, said Friday the accusations against the former judge amount to "a high-tech lynching."

Now I think if some of these kids parents were doing what he was doing maybe they wouldn't be in jail but then again maybe there were and this is why they are in jail.. Also ummmm Judge "Freakum" was ordering them to pull their pants down to "SPANK?" ummm Spank?? That ain't right something in the milk ain't clean..

Bag Lady!

This Post here was given to me by a fellow blogger (hindsight) and she was asking how many women actually carry past hurt into their new relationships?
Now me being a man I have been the victim of "him" Him being the ex boyfriend whom hurt my current and I'm dealing with her non trust issues or I gotta break down some barrier just to get close to her. Plus truth be told I don't wan to work that damn hard on repairing stuff. Why Must I pay for mess this other dude did? How many women can actually admit to carrying old baggage into their next relationship and how can that be corrected? I'm sure it's going to come up that Men bring baggage to blah blah blah but I'm talking about Women now so don't go there. In the words of My daughter, "Girl Boo!" what it means I have no clue but the context of which it's used is hilarious to me, hahahaha!

Tangy sensation?

Okay I would Say this was a April Fools Joke but I think this is just a Damn Fool.. Looking at these pictures of Tommy brought the song of "Chicken noodle soup with a soda on the side" or kool-aid LOL!! These picture say Tang all over it and in the words of the Rainbow gang "Come get a piece Bitch" LOLOL!!

Ms. Independent

Well I've been asked this time and time again and I think Today is a good day to bring it up. Let's all have a discussion on this right here, "Do women really feel men are scared of their Independence?" I read an article by "Soulliving" that brought up some questions I'd like answered. She made Great Points like in the songs Now days like lil boosie or LIL Webbie or LIL Foodstamp whatever talking about Independent women and how she has her own house her own car and her own money and really don't need a man for nothing but sex actually so ummm tell me is this true? Do many of you feel like that? Soulliving Pointed out this Fact, "Why do these songs regarding independent women always involve and focus on material wealth and vanity. Can a woman not be defined as independent solely based on your individualistic way of thinking outside of how much money she has or if she has toe nails that matches her range rover?"

1.Do you feel Black Men are afraid of successful, independent women?"
2. how do women define independence these days?
3.Does it entail you gaining financial wealth for self?
4.Making your own decisions regardless of your man?
5 Can you be independent and not single?

Let's get this Poppin!

Good Morning!

Good Morning My People and thanks for checking me out today! I thought this picture was refreshing and inspiring..