Now I wanna know how on earth do women think they know what a man is packing when he not on swole? Explain that one out because if it's to cold it's shrinkage or the underwear can hide some or don't give me the whole shoe size thingy nor the index finger trick either. I believe many of you guess and hope and pray it's right.. You don't know I just want ya'll to admit it.
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You are right. There are "hiders" out there. That's what I call them, they look like snausages (remember that commercial snausages snausages snausages) anyway, but they stretch and expand in an amazing way.
There is now way to know, trust me... size 14 shoe/size vienna sausage pole.
But I can tell you that you can tell how a man is gonna get down by the way he moves. Ain't nothing like a dancer. There is certain swag to a man who handles his business.
Ain't nothing like a Dancer hu? hahaha!! hmmmm Watch skating and learn something new
T Mac, I definately agree with the being able to tell from the way he moves. However, there are more ways other than dancing to tell; skaters have Swagg too. LOL I was trying to be funny with that one. And I've had some small ones who knew how to work his pole real well.
Mr. Focus you beat me to it. You kind of killed my joke. I was writting that at the same time, but you posted first.
Someone should write a book on that. "The Art of working a small Pole"
fishing guide get ya'll mind out the gutter. hahha!
Focus I have known you forEVER, you were a dancer first Big Daddy.
My bad!!!! @Ms. Private
Let's keep real. Just because a man is packing doesn't mean that he can perform. Size is not always the determing factor in how good/bad sex will be with a person. A man who is well endowed may think doesn't have to work as hard to please his partner(s). Where as a man who may not be as blessed does more to make that his partner(s) are satisfied to make up for his lack of endowment.
I can't dance worth Sh*T now I must've been working at this damn company to long dancing like Carlton Banks!! Also yes you've been knowing me since I was kid but No one does the running man anymore, hahahaha!! Wait yes they do..
True dat "1 Part"
But with the equipment we can always teach, can't we? (SMILE) just my opinion of course.
I don't go by a shoe size I usually go by height but T-Mac proved that can be wrong so I guess you just take a chance
so that must mean your pole is measure in millimeters focus lololol....just kidding be nice
Well now you just dance on skates, but you could mooovvvee when we were 15, I gotta believe that translated well.
This is true, size is not always the issue!! It's more than that for me tho. A mental connection is what drives me to the point of errection. When it's passionate and he's hittin all the right spot, man I'm not thinking about the size. If a man just beat my azz, I don't care how good he is in bed that mental connection is lost. Plus ladies, ya'll know we have to teach them all>> We know what makes them happy, but they have to learn how to make us happy.
I don't go by any physicalities because that doesn't tell me much. If a guy is a pleaser he will do any and everything to make sure his partner(s) get theirs everytime regardless of his size.
Wowowow is all I can really say.
Ms Private, I completely agree, I couldn't have said it better.
I gotta co-sign with Ms Private as well. Truer words were never typed.
Ms. Private you telling the truth in here!! Should we pass the offering plate around? Now hopefully she knows what makes herself happy because we men can't guess all the time.
Ladies, ya'll know how at the beginning of the relationship the sex is sooo good? Is it the same after the honey moon phase is over? Yeah, it still maybe good, but is it as good? After all life's issues factor in and it's hard finding time for sex, most of the passion is gone. It is done simply to RELEASE a little tention. But you have those rare occassions where everything feels right with the world because you and your mate is making Hot, Passionate Love....
@Ms.Private.. Then men should Pace themselve right? Not constantly banging all the time wearing it out then it gets old right? Gotta keep that Spice going!
{Puttin a lil somethin' in the offerin' plate} Alright!!! I say, if you can't get something done right, do it yourself!!! As for dancing/skating, that is all a prerequisite, if you don't pass the movement/rhythm test,"it" ain't gon' happen!
hahaha@ movement and rhythm test!! hahaha!!
Some dancers like to go both ways, which would make them more in tune with their feminine side. Would that be why some are viewing dancers as good sexual partner(s)? Per my friend who is a dancer.
I guess what I'm basically trying to say is, I'm not looking for the size of a man dikk in the beginning, I'm looking at the man holding it... It doesn't matter to me if he's good in bed, if he's treating me badly.
Well I need rhythm and movement and I'm straight no chaser so if it's not right, I 'm not a teacher, i don't have time to teach, I need my stuff worked out correctly and efficiently....how bout that!
Rythm and movement comes with that connection. Ya'll viben!! I've had men who couldn't dance a lick, but could lick a mean _ _ _ _ _,, if U know what I mean and don't get me wrong, thhe could definately work the stick as well... I believe it's because I don't just sleep with anyone so those I do sleep with, we have some form of connection. Therefore, there's never been a problem in the bed room for me.. Yes, there when I was younger, but not lately...
How about if he ain't got the rhythm and movement then he just "Humpin" and umm then you will be "Teaching" how about that?? So if a man Can Move and work it right then you ain't have to do as much to make up for what he ain't doing. '"no chaser"
Speaking for self only:
As much as I want it, I think a man should provide it. Keeping the spice in the bedroom comes with being open and comfortable with your partner which I think gets better over time. Cause with more time, comes more comfort, which means less boundaries. At the end of the day I want to feel comfortable doing whatever comes to mind and vice versa.
So I think it gets better with time.
As far as being a dancer and being in touch with his feminine side, that is fine as long as he isn't in touch with his bi-side.
And, I don't mind taking the lead from time to time; I LOVE being the life of the party,,Hahahah,,, naw just joking. I don't mind putting in work!! A lil work ain't never hurt nobody,,, only made you stronger...
In general you will have to learn each other regardless of what skills you possess before you hook up with someone. What worked for the person before may not work witht the next person. What you have to master is body language and how one's body responds to different things. Once you learn that about your mate you should be fine.
Focus, if he was just humpin, I would take the lead and teach him. Like T-Mac said, it gets better over time. And some men are worth the wait. No one is perfect, and he's probably only doing what satisfied his last partner. I might be freakier than he is. If he's a good student, I'll have his azz broken in in no time because I'm a great teacher,,, LOL,, just joking.
hahahhahha focus you tend to get a little touchy hahahhah calm down, stress causes shrinkage LMBO
Can you women please invite some Male friends so we can really get this poppin from more men point of view..
Shrinkage hu?? hahaha!!
After the shrinkage comment, seems like your asking for back up Focus????? LOL (sorry, I had to pick w/ that one)
OOOOH wow! @Raven!! It was coincidence believe me.. hahaha! But good way to pick that out Good one!!
Communication between partners is a good topic. I think communication is the key to any successful relationship, well communication is a vital part because there is definately other factors.. Dr. Phil just did a show about young couples and most of their issues were due from poor communication... He also showed how this trickled down to the children and family.
Raven I couldn't agree more!!! LOLOL
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